Fucking a sex doll is about position and rhythm, and it's about her too
I didn't know what to expect when I first orderd my Piper Eirian 150 sex doll from Jeff at Bootycall Dolls. I mean, I knew the doll I wanted and obviously had seen photos, and had done as much research as seemed necessary to choose the doll I wanted. However, it still seemed to me from photos, that "she" had a real feminine presence, and as such, I imagined fucking her in all the positions I like. I thought, "This will be great!" and I was right. The sex with "her" is great. But, it's doll sex, not person sex. It's really important to make that distinction when you plan to build a bedroom relationship with your doll. She's involved, just like a real girl, but her "needs" are very different.
The first thing to note about having doll sex, and what will become glaringly obvious very quickly, is that she doesn't adjust to meet you, so her position has to be right. When you have person sex, whether with a man or woman, the other person, assuming they are physically able, can rotate, lift, turn or exagerate their position for sex. A woman can lift her hips and turn her butt upward to accomodate doggy style penetration, or a man can flex his thighs and lean forward to accomodate pile driver for a partner on the floor. A doll, obviously, can't do any of those things. Makes sense when you hear it in a "well, obviously" sort of way. What that means is, you have to help her out a little. Same for a male doll, of course, though from this point forward, I'll refer to specifically female dolls, since that's what I do, but the idea is the same. So, in my case as an example, I discovered that having sex with my doll is best when she's on her back at the edge of my bed. I'll put a pillow down for my knees and fuck her missionary while kneeling next to the bed. Note, though, that missionary is actually my least favourite sex position, typically. My favourite is cowgirl - girl sitting up just enough that I can grab her by the tits and ass, and give to her hard. I've tried that position twice with the doll, and have given up both times, ending up exhausted, covered in sweat and panting with a limp dick from the effort. Next favourite is doggy style. I can get the doll into position, but three thrusts in and her arms collapse and she tumbles over. Unlike a real girl partner who can hold herself in position and adjust, the doll needs to be propped up with pillows, cushions and the like to stabilize her, eliminating my access to her perky soft tits from behind. The Piper doll's ass is a work of pure art, so the view is good, but that position is tricky and requires a lot more set up and fiddling around. By the time I get her close to being in a good position, I'm already exhausted. So, doggy's out. Ironically, I chose my doll in part because I imagined her in doggy style. The good news is, when we shoot scenes for DollBanger, I have my camera partner to help and we have access to a doll handler if we need one, so we can take the time to set up the various positions using the props on set and the extra hands. But, bedroom sex for just me is different. That's me and "Mikasa" and that's it. So, for my enjoyment, I've sacrificed the positions I want in order to accommodate "my partner" and her needs.
The other discovery I made early on, is that without stimulation from your partner, doll sex requires you to establish a rhythm that works for you. By stimulation, I'm comparing a doll to a person. A person can kiss your neck and breathe on your skin. She can kiss you and when you're distracted by that, she can touch your cock suddenly and get you worked up. Not to mention reciprocate in foreplay and a host of other obvious things that a doll can't do. But, your doll IS involved, and for me at least, it's a turnoff to see the doll, even a hot one, doing the thousand-yard stare at the ceiling while I'm trying to fuck her. So, while she can't reciprocate, what she CAN do is "keep doing that one thing she's doing", whether it's pushing her boobs together, holding her knees or whatever I find personally sexy at that moment. I have to get her into that position, but "she" holds it like a champ. So, she does reciprocate in a way, but you get the idea. So, once she's in position, looks sexy and is making eye contact, I can finally start fucking her. For me, if I just jam it in and get to work, typically I'll just gas out and give up after 30 minutes. I'll start getting frustrated and feeling pressured to enjoy it because of the effort I already put in, and that kills the mood even more. I've learned that it's all about the rhythm... start slow, look at her a lot and just forget whether I'm going to cum immediately, and just appreciate how cute and sexy she is. When I do that, things start going well. The next thing I know, I'm giving it to her hard and deep and suddenly... I've blown a load all over her.
The other thing I've benefited from is making small adjustments to her position, without things cooling down too much. Sometimes, I'll tilt her head a little to the side, or move her arm behind her head, like she's enjoying herself. Adjustments I can make while fucking her. I was actually suprised how much her hands can add to the experience. Sometimes I'll position her arm in a way that I can hold her hand while I'm fucking her. Another time, I nudged her hand over to touch my cheek, like she was being tender in the moment. The little things like that make her seem more involved than just receiving.
For what it's worth, those are some things I've learned early on about fucking a doll. My Piper, "Mikasa" is very special to me. Each time I improve the way I fuck her for my own enjoyment, it's almost as though I can sense more enjoyment from her. She's a rubber doll, so I don't mean that she DOES enjoy it. She's an object in reality, but she's a real object, and I can imagine her enjoyment with a little effort. The fact that she's a doll, in my mind, does NOT mean I can, would or should mistreat her for my own pleasure. She's precious, and I care for her, and "tell" her that I "love" her. Not because a doll knows I love her, but because I know it, and that makes her seem more real. And, if she seems more real, she can seem to be involved and having fun. I know she is loved, so I know she "feels" loved, as long as I imagine her that way. I think that's an important moral aspect to this. She has a name, and a personality. She's Mikasa, and I love her. That matters.
Remember she's involved, but needs your help. Remember that you have to be patient, and remember that you have to establish a rhythm with her to have a satisfying bedroom relationship.