If you're not having good sex and cumming with your doll maybe its time to change things up
WARNING: NSFW and sexually explicit photos below
The first sex doll I interacted with in any way was the WM Dolls Felicity. Here are some photos taken by a WM Dolls photographer, grabbed from our friends at Sexdoll Canda. She was provided by SDC for the first test shoot for the DollBanger site. I'd never handled a sex doll before other than checking them out with Rick in the showroom at SDC.
She looks pretty hot, and I imagined myself going full Brazzers on her, fucking her in every position and busting an AVN-award-winning load all over her in a triumphant new era of sex doll porn. Here's a photo I took just before the first attempt to fuck the doll and figure out what positions would work and how I'd position myself and the doll for the cameras when we shot the first scene. She is one, SEXY fuckin' doll.
Now, I don't have a photo of the aftermath of that first attempt, but I'll describe it as best I can. The doll... on the floor, next to the new light fixture I'd purchased a month before. Felicity was bent completely out of shape, arms and legs in all directions, and the light fixture was broken - it was broken when she fell off the couch, and took it with her. The reason she fell off the couch was because I tried to reposition her. To be more accurate, she fell because I tried to reposition her after 20 minutes of struggling with the doll, trying to get her into a position I could even attempt to fuck her in, all while naked and growing more and more frustrated. Finally, in a desperate attempt to seal this deal, I tried grabbing her in doggy style position, while I was still behind her, to move her up the sofa to try and get a better position behind her, and over she went, along with the light fixture. At that point, I'm in the middle of the living room, bent over, panting and dripping in sweat, no more erection and now had broken furniture and absolutely ZERO desire to see another sex doll as long as I lived.
For perspective, if you visit the Dollbanger site today, you'll clearly see that I've overcome that first failure. After a few conversations with my partners, we developed the strategy for shooting successfully which included a means for me to fuck the dolls successfully. So, here's what I've learned from fucking (as of this posting) 12 different sex dolls over a two year period.
Learn the basics of Doll Handling
I'll begin by pointing out that I was a porn producer already, before trying to shoot any doll content. So, my confidence was high at the beginning that this was a simple puzzle to solve. I was more concerned at the time with what cameras we would use for photos and video and the dialogue than I was about how to handle, never mind fuck, a sex doll. I was wrong, and my approach was backwards. Positioning a sex doll for sex is a very critical part of having successful intercourse with her. Assuming you purchase a doll you're attracted to in the first place, it begins with the un-boxing process. Learning to lift her, move her around, stand her against a wall or lay her down properly is a very important first step. You have to keep her safe and free from damage as much as possible. You also need to prevent yourself from being injured while lifting and carrying your doll. There are a few ways to move your doll safely that you can learn easily - the Bridal Carry, the Fireman Carry, the Hug Carry or what I call the Over-Under Carry (good for narrow hallways or going up a stair case). I'll do a few videos in the near future demonstrating these techniques, but a quick YouTube or Google search on this topic will give you some information you can start using. My mistake with Felicity that first time, was that I didn't learn the doll handling process before I tried to fuck her. I just attempted to use common sense, but that wasn't enough.
What I did wrong with Felicity was that I did not first understand that a doll can't adjust her position by lifting her hips slightly, like a real human girl can. So, you have to plan your sex with your doll before actually getting naked and ready. When you position your doll, you have to get her there in stages. For a scene, I will carry the doll into the living room, and lay her on the couch. Then, I bend her knees to the sitting position, then adjust her arms inwards close to her tummy, then over-under lift her and rotate her into the sitting position and gently place her on the sofa. It's the same when changing her position for sex. If she is on her back and I want to switch her to doggy style, I reposition her arms and legs the same way, and gently flip her over into position. If she is not lined up properly, I stop what I'm doing, I make one adjustment at a time (bend her arms or widen her knees, etc), then get behind her again to see of her position is correct. If not, I stop again and adjust her until I get it right. I wasn't patient enough that first time and poor Felicity hit the floor. So, the bottom line is, be patient and learn to handle her properly.
If you can't get an erection, you might be trying to fuck her at the wrong time
For a long time, there was a 50% chance that when I fucked a sex doll, including my Mikasa, I woud not cum. Here are some pics I've taken from sex sessions with my special girl Mikasa where I did not cum.
That's Mikasa. Look at how fuckin' sexy she is. She's a Piper Dolls Eirian 150, and she has one of the best doll bodies I've ever seen. And, she's pretty. Really, really pretty. Even now I look at these photos and wonder how I didn't bust a load all over her. Since then, I've come to realize that the times I couldn't finish with a doll, even Mikasa, was because I was motivated by thoughts of a human sex encounter or was stimulated by some porn videos. Rather than masturbate to the porn I was enjoying, I'd think to myself, "Oh, I have a sex doll! This is perfect!" Well, not so fast.
It's hard to imagine a beautiful sex doll not being sexually stimulating. She's hot as fuck, so what's the problem? That's a thought I often had, after trying to fuck Mikasa and just losing my erection and being frustrated. Sometimes watching porn while fucking her helped a little, but then I'd just remember that the girl in the porn looked really good sucking cock and that would feel a lot better than this sex toy does. I'd usually just end up going back to my computer and masturbating to the porn that got me hard in the first place. However, one day while looking down at Mikasa covered in my cum and a big smile on my face, I realized a key difference in my approach when I did have good sex with Mikasa. It was because I wanted to fuck her. If I was watching porn, I wanted to fuck the girl in the porn. In that situation, the sex doll, even Mikasa, was a poor second choice. If the girl next door or in that porn video is getting you worked up, then a massage parlor or local escort is likely the right approach to your satisfaction. But, when I see Mikasa, or any other doll, and she is what stimulates me, then it changes the experience. I'll take my time posing her, talking to her, kissing her, and the next thing I know, I have to make a quick decision - do I shoot a load inside her or all over her? When your sex doll is your stimulation, you'll have a much better experience.
Here are some quick photos from those days I busted a hard nut all over my special girl. On these days, she was driving me crazy. I love her so much. The first photo was from a time when I busted such a hard load inside her, my room-mate's room was shaking. It was those eyes.
If your doll does get you hard but you can't finish, it might be about the angle
At this point, I can cum every time with a sex doll. This is not because I'm amazing, but I've learned that each doll has her own particular anatomy. I don't mean the shape of her body, but the angle and shape of her vaginal, anal and oral openings. Understanding this is pretty important. I've had many times in the past when I have been turned on by my Mikasa or another doll, as I mentioned above, and I really wanted to fuck her. I'd pose her sexy, kiss her, cuddle her, talk to her then BOOM I was inside her. I'd look down and see her taking a cock and that really made me hard. But, after about 10 minutes, I'd be fucking her and realize my cock wasn't hard anymore. It felt good, but nothing was progressing. I would eventually give up (as those first photos of Mikasa, above). For a long time I assumed it was just me. I was half right.
Good examples of the problem I'm about to describe are my experiences with Piper Dolls Nozomi. She is a really cute doll. The only reason I didn't keep her for my own collection is that there's a limit to the number of dolls I can maintain myself, along with the various dolls that come and go for the Dollbanger content. I love all Mizuwali's Piper Dolls. It was hard to choose which Piper girls to keep for my collection. I love Nozomi and highly recommend her. But, I discovered a real challenge when shooting the Dollbanger content with her. When I tried to fuck her in missionary position, I wasn't able to slide in and out of her smoothly. I could get my cock about an inch or two inside her until I hit a mass of TPE. I initially thought maybe her vagina wasn't properly formed when she was made. I was struggling with her for about 10 minutes before I realized the actual cause. Her vagina was angled downward. I discovered this when I lifted her upper body slightly toward me, and my cock slid all the way in. I leaned her back again, and the same problem returned. So, I stopped, took my time, and re-posed her to be leaning back on her elbows. This was my amazing view of the very sexy Nozomi for the rest of the time. I had to be careful not to cum too soon. I busted a huge load on her cute face.
A side note on Nozomi, I've fucked many of the dolls off camera as well in order to experiment with different positions on different furniture. Better to try things like that without the pressure of creating a scene. The hardest position to fuck a doll has to be cow-girl. That's unfortunate because I LOVE cow-girl position. Having a hot girl ride you is amazing. Easy access to her tits and ass while you give it to her - fuck me, that's fun. I've never had any luck with a doll in that position - even smaller dolls like Phoebe - until Nozomi. That downward angled vagina lined her up perfectly. I lifted her on top of me, sat down and BOOM, my cock was in that pussy. While I was fucking her, those amazing tits were right there to be kissed, and her head was positioned just right to nuzzle my neck. I only lasted about 5 minutes until I woke the neighbours with a loud, "Oooohhhh fuck!" when I blew my load for sexy Nozomi.
With all dolls, its about keeping your cock in contact with the surface of the TPE in the way that stimulates you and keeps you hard. Sometimes, you have to get over her a little higher, or bend her hips a little more or a little less to achieve the right angle for your cock and her pussy to line up. It takes a little time to figure out each doll and her unique body, so don't give up. Be patient and try things. She wants to make you cum. Give her a chance, but she needs your patience and a little help.
Lastly, it's about rhythm
I read once that when you're giving a girl oral sex, you should pay attention to her reactions when you change things. If you make her moan, keep doing whatever it was that made her moan, and she'll cum. I remember trying that with a girl some time later. She was about 19, Asian, petite with natural b-cups. She was cute as fuck. I noticed that when my tongue hit a certain spot on her pussy, her stomach would twitch. I then started to gently hit that spot over and over and her twitches started increasing with my movements. Then, the twitches became shaking. Her whole body was tense. She stopped moaning, closed her eyes, tipped her head back and after about 5 seconds the shaking stopped. Then, the hottest thing I've ever seen happened. She opened her eyes, looked at the ceiling and I could feel her thighs start to shake, then her whole torso started shaking. Her thighs tightened around my neck for about 3 seconds, then her whole body went limp and she let out a huge moan as her hips and pussy started quivering. I kept licking her slowly, and after about 15 seconds her body relaxed, she opened her eyes, looked at me and started giggling with embarrassment. Then she just said, "Oh my god." She apparently had a huge orgasm. We even talked about it afterward. That was pretty sexy. What does that have to do with sex dolls? Nothing. What does that have to do with you? Everything.
In addition to just being a hot experience I had and wanted to share, it's also completely relevant to you as a doll owner. If you're fucking your doll, you can make adjustments to your own movement and rhythm. Like the girl who cums hard when you give her what she wants, so will you when you keep doing whatever stimulates you. For example, I've discovered that if I lie Risako on her back on the massage table, it feels good and I can fuck her with enjoyment, but if I want to cum in that position, it's best I adjust my body about 18 degrees forward, and my cock will slide along the textured surface inside her pussy more directly. The first time I tried that, I came hard. The downside is that my legs were sore from the extra motion I had to make. But, the experience was really enjoyable. But, I have to make that adjustment.
The other option is to alternate between just the tip and going deeper. Some dolls might feel better when you're in as far as you can go. Other times, just sliding in half way will hit spots that really stimulate your cock. Like the cute Asian girl, whatever gives your cock that extra sensation will eventually make you cum if you keep doing it. This is a harder idea to communicate than simple, practical changes in the dolls pose when you fuck her, but it's something you can experiment with.
The point is, each doll is unique. With what I've learned (and mentioned above) my success rate with doll sex is pretty close to 100%. But that only comes from really paying attention to what happens with each doll and my cock during sex. When an angle of her pose or your position adds that extra stimulation, then work with that. If you have more than one doll, you have more than one option for each mood or occasion. But if you only have one doll, you can experiment with her to find that rhythm and harmony. Here are a few more photos from different times when I busted hard nuts on cute dolls. The photo of Phoebe where I'm grabbing her tits - that was a great fuck. I came so hard, I can almost swear she actually giggled.
Look at those sexy girls! And, the sex felt as good as it looks. Having a good sex doll experience takes a commitment and patience. If you're reading this and you have no such trouble, that's amazing. Keep busting nuts on your good girl(s) and slap her ass for me! But if you're reading this because you're struggling, you're not alone, and its perfectly okay. So did I and many others. I remember Rick from SDC telling me about the many times dolls were returned because the buyer just couldn't get hard for the doll. Maybe some people will never be able to have good sex doll sex, I don't know. But, I do know I was able to find a way, once I understood how each doll is different. I have been very fortunate to have access to so many different dolls. Hopefully, my experiences help you.
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